Posts Tagged ‘Self discovery’

Thank You For Sharing A Moment: Revolutionary ImproVerse Haiku

September 21, 2016

I thought that I was/
outgoing ’til I met a/
guy who truly is.

Article on the South Street Spinning Wheel

Yawp, Find Your Center, Then Do: Revolutionary IMprov Free Verse

May 9, 2016

your divine
Then do.

Finding Our Own Connection: Revolutionary Blogging Haiku

April 25, 2016

Muir found himself in/
Yosemite. I need to/
find me up Mud Creek.

Womb Exiting At Middle Age: Revolutionary ConTEXTing Haiku

April 19, 2015

The middle-aged search/
towards light is just as hard/
aMaple Canyon Middle-Aged Rebirth Noirs womb exiting.
The middle-aged search/
towards the light is much harder/
than leaving the womb.


Self-Discovery Sick: Romantic IMprov Haiku

February 20, 2015

To discover you/
aren’t viewed how you think you are/
can make you sick quick.

Opening Up Her Box Of Pain: Revolutionary Blogging Free Verse

January 12, 2015

I found her box
of pain.

Not knowing
it even existed,
I opened it,
read her words,
and drifted back
10 years.

Even before she knew,
or I knew,
or we knew
the end
was near,
there was sorrow,

Only this time,
it wasn’t mine.
It was hers.
Words screaming
on the screen,
yet in her soft,
“I can take it all”

There was passion
and problems
and pain
and fear
and hurt
and anger
and loneliness
I never knew
she carried.

opened up
all the things
I didn’t know,
or hadn’t cared
to see.

Her vision:
She saw me
clutching the side
of our bed,
back to her,
but I never saw
her fear,
her wondering,
her begging,
her confused yearning
what to do
so I wouldn’t yell,
or be angry,
or threaten to leave,
or emotionally
who I should have
been protecting
and loving.

Like a drug
of pain
I couldn’t stop
I kept reading,
and reading,
and piling on
the “whys”
the “why nots”
the cruelty
I never knew
was me.

She piled it on,
words on
and more,
but it wasn’t
about hurting me.
It was about
to protect
to keep herself
from fading away.
From dying.
From loneliness.
From nothingness.

In her words
were reflected
and broken mirrored
so many
similar stories
I’ve heard
for years,
from others,
about the pain
women felt
from abusive men,
from cheaters,
from liars,
from narcissistic
they’d escaped from.

Hearing the pained stories,
these pig-men were creatures
who have disgusted me,
who have enraged me,
who have made me sick.

Selfish men who hurt women
they’d vowed to protect,
left them cold
and vulnerable
and unsafe
and desolate
and alone
and scared
and lonely.

Are they blind?
How could someone
do such things
and call himself
a man?

How could someone
be such a thing
and call himself
a human?
Much less
a Christian?
Much less a righteous
Priesthood holder?

Not that!

File > Open.
Now I stand,
looking in her box
of pain,
words black
on pale blue,
reading what she’s gone through,
probing her thoughts,
sneaking into her mind,
knowing what she’s going through.

My stomach churns
more than it ever has
for anyone else’s story.
More than it ever did
as I’ve held others
and comforted them
and said
“That’s in the past”
“That’s disgusting.
I’m sorry that happened
to you.
It shouldn’t have,”
and asked
“I don’t know
how someone could do that.”

But it did happen.
And someone could do that.
Only this time,
I’m not hearing about it.
I’m reading about it
in an old family folder
dot doc
from an old
blue light
hard drive I’d rescued
for the photos
and the good memories
I thought I’d find.

Not knowing
I’d find this
words lining
her box of pain.

Does this pain
ever stop?
Does this repentance process
ever end?
Does this discovery and learning
ever quit?
Or will I always
and forever
keep uncovering how much
I hurt her
and what a bad man
I was?

Am I still?

I’m sick
and sickened
as I read about
the man
she knew.
The pig-thing
clutching to his side
of the bed,
clutching to
his side
of the story,
clutching blindly,
blind to the hurt
he dished out.

He makes me sick.

Does this pain
ever stop?
Does this repentance process
ever end?
Does this discovery and learning
ever quit?
Or will I always
and forever
keep uncovering how much
I hurt her
and what a bad man
I was?

Am I still?

I’m ready to puke
on my shoes,
and take my son’s nine iron
to my knee caps
and punch
myself out.

What Others Think: Revolutionary IMprov Haiku

September 24, 2013

What others think is/
not vital. Learn what works for/
you and God. Do that*.

Have joy.

The Meaning Of Space: Revolutionary ImproVerse Haiku

June 16, 2013

Giving someone space/
just means they leave and then you/
find out who you are.
discover yourself.

This Fits To A T: Revolutionary ImproVerse Free Verse Poetry

May 12, 2013

You were the mother
of my escape,
of the start
of the birth
of my
(as yet unfinished)
self-discovery journey.

It was you
who set my feet on the path
that opened up my soul
and my heart
and my mind
to what could be
and should be
and now,

Terrifying Learning: Revolutionary ImproVerse Haiku

January 1, 2013

Learning that you are
not who you thought you were can
be terrifying.